Hey all! So I just found out that I'm 4 weeks pregnant (yay!) and I'm a bridesmaid in 2 weddings this summer 2 weeks apart. I'll only be about 4 months along by then, so I'm not worried about the dresses fitting. However, I was wondering when the best time to tell the brides would be. I feel like it's news best shared in person, but the only times I might see them is at their showers and bachelorette parties because of long distance, so I don't know if I should tell them on those days and steal their thunder or throw them for a loop on a special day for them. Both BP's are right before my 12 week mark, too. It'll be impossible for me to lie about drinking, but I'm ok telling them even though it'll still be the end of my 1st trimester. They'd both be very happy and supportive knowing I'm pregnant, I'm just not sure when and how would be the most appropriate time to tell. Call them up a week before the BP's? Call them right away? Tell them in person? Call their mothers and ask their advice? Other? Thanks so much!!!