Fi and I will be 36 and 35 respectively when we get married.
His youngest brother (23) just got engaged too and is planning a wedding the same year as us.
MIL wants to plan one big shower for the both of us.
I stopped that idea right away as I am sure it is important for a young bride to have her own shower and knowing her, she would be pissed.
Plus, Fi and I have been living together for 3 years and combined 2 households already. We won't have a standard registry as we don't need pots and pans. I am even having a garage sale to get rid of all the double or triple things we have.
I told Fi it would be awkward for me to be at the shower watching the other bride open her gifts.
Anyway, I want to plan my shower and I want it to be different than the traditional shower. I am not the traditional bride Fi's family is used to.
I have some time to think about it so if you have any ideas, it would be great!