so I just found out last night that 1 of my 2 MOH will not be making it to my wedding. She is at an interenship 14 hours away and they will not let her take that weekend off. My wedding is in a month from tomorrow.. My question is I guess-do I still involve her verbally in stuff, send her a gift? What do I do? I never imagined coming into this situation and I'm still in a little bit of shock from hearing it