My vendors are different (family friends, etc) and I have no clue how to tip them.
- Caterer is a friend (who is a retired professional caterer). We're paying the same I would have paid a catering company, but it'll probably be better food. She getting paid per hour of work plus food/labor costs for preparing. Planning to give her a gift bag (wine, a candle, etc.). Should I also toss in $25? or $50?
- General Assistant: We have a friend who will DD anyone needed at the end of the night (less than 10 min round trip and expecting only 1 trip). He'll help clean up, etc. Planning to tip him $50-100 depending on how much he has to do.
- Photographer and Assistant. The photographer is a friend of the family. She's getting to stay with one of her friend's for the weekend and invited to enjoy the reception after photos are done (as she knows guests). I'm paying full price, but I read I should tip her assistant, but not her since she's head photographer and self employed. I feel odd tipping the asst and not her. I thought of tipping her $75, asst $50 and getting them both a bottle of wine.
- Hair: another family friend. She used to do hair. I planned to get her a gift bag of goodies. Make up is DIY.
Thanks!