So I am all about wedding etiquette, it's just the polite thing to do for hosting a celebration for your friends and family. Well, I was in a wedding in March, I gave my gift for the shower as well as the wedding and we haven't received a thank you note for either. Am I a prude to think that this is rude to do? I thought the appropriate amount of time to send those out was up to 3 months? Or am I wrong? I feel a little used for the gifts, like that was an expectation that guest are supposed to bring gifts. I asked another family if they received thank yous but they haven't either. Has something changed in the 2 years since I was married?