One of FI's groomsmen's(Jack) wife(Jill) sent a FB message to FI asking
if she could bring a guest to the wedding. Jill knows all of the other
GM's & their wives and knows a fair amount of other guests at the wedding. We
are not having a head table and are not asking wedding party members to
spend large amounts of time away from their wives/dates.
In the
FB message Jill also asked, "Are you and Dyerwise stating at the hotel on
the wedding night? Is anyone staying at your house that night?". I feel
like this is super weird and it makes me super uncomfortable. You want to stay at my home with a guest I've never met? FI and I have only met Jill a total of 4 times, so we don't even know her that well.
Jack
and Jill just got married last year after knowing each other for only a
few months, the first time we met was at their wedding. The second
time we met her was when we booked a lake house for a weekend with
them a few other couples. Jack was using the shower in their bedroom and
Jill used the shower in our room while we were at the store. I had
packed up my makeup and toiletries up because I assumed others may use our bathroom and didn't want to leave a mess. Well, when I
came back I saw Jill had used all of my things. My razor, my mascara,
my eyeliner, my hair brush.... I was grossed out. WHO DOES THAT. I don't even want to think about her alone in my house for a night... would she use my back up night time retainer?
FI hasn't responded yet because he doesn't even believe she is asking him and not Jack.