So is it bad when people ask you how the wedding was and your response is "I think it was nice - I don't really remember" ? (Ok, maybe that's because three days later, he went in for a total knee replacement)
Mom was minimally bitchy during - had to hear some whining afterwards, but overall wasn't too bad. Food was awesome, we had great weather for the whole weekend, and we didn't run out of booze! Now just to muddle through the name change process *sigh*