My fiancé and I are planning on getting married on May 15th 2017 in Cabo San Lucas with about thirty of our family and friends present. But because of the paperwork hassle and all the requirements, we are legally getting married at home at a courthouse before we go, but not making a big deal out of it, as in, not inviting anyone, or really talking about it. I am wondering, after reading through posts about "wedding do overs" how others feel about this? Are people going to be upset? Also side note, for those who did the courthouse ceremony first and then had a more formal ceremony later, what did you wear to the courthouse one? Should I wear my wedding dress, or find something more casual? Thank you!