Hello, I am new to posting here and not sure if this is the right place. I guess I'm just looking for some support because I am feeling a little sad and lost. I moved to the current town I'm in for a job about three years ago; I met my fiance here, who has grown up here and has all of his friends and family within a 10-mile radius of each other. My family is somewhat scattered over the country, and my parents live several states and an expensive plane ride away. The same goes for a lot of my close friends. I had a large group of close friends in college, but once we graduated and took different jobs we all seemed to go in different geographical directions. I have made a few friends in my current town, but only two or three that I would consider close.
My concerns are about the wedding party and activities such as bridal showers and bachelorette party. My bridesmaids consist of two friends in my current town, two friends from college who live several states away, and my sister, cousin, and stepsister who all live in different states. Since everyone is so scattered, I don't feel like I will have a lot of people to attend any festivities such as showers or bachelorette parties. My aunts and cousins and grandparents are all over the place, so there is not anyone local who I know would throw me a shower. In addition, my mother is in California and having some financial difficulties, and so I don't know how realistic it is that she would be able to attend a lot of things like showers and wedding dress shopping. I think that is one of the things that upsets me the most, as I always thought I would have my mom by my side for every step of this.
Thank you to anyone who took the time to read this novel. I think I'm just feeling a little lost and saddened by all of this. Anyone else get married who had a lot of family, friends, and wedding party members living out of town?