We are having a small wedding with about 30 people. We both have one grandparent alive, our grandfathers. Neither of us is very close with our grandfather because our parents are not close with them; however, we do not have hard feelings against them.
When we were putting together a guest list I didn't think to invite either one of them at first (because we are having a small wedding and we aren't close with either grandfather), but now I am wondering if I should. In my grandfather's case, he is no longer able to drive (he is 92), so if I do invite him, we would have to figure out how he will get to the wedding (he lives an hour away from the wedding location). My parents do not have a good relationship with him, so they would not be picking him up. For my boyfriend's grandfather, I think he does not feel comfortable flying from Boston to Miami (the wedding location) at his age. Do I invite them to be nice?