I am getting married in 5 days and I am trying to stay as excited as possible however issues with my MOH are making this challenging. We have been super close and she was really excited when I got engaged and asked her to be my MOH. I started to notice some negative comments from her right after my bridal shower. She was looking for new jobs and was really active in her personal life. The night before my bachelorette party, I was told that my grandmother was not coming to my wedding due to some past family drama. The day of the party, I worked really hard to not be upset and my MOH only said that I couldn't let it ruin the party. The party started off really fun. Went to dinner and it ended up taking a lot longer then she had planned for, which meant the after dinner plan wasn't an option. Everyone was tired from dinner, but she said we were going out. I said something about feeling old and she snapped at me and told me that I wasn't allowed to make anymore comments like that. One of my BM's bought a round of shots and after that I started to feel like I was going to get sick. I asked to go back to the room early (1am!) and she ignored me for the rest of the night. The next day it was clear she was mad and was making rude comments to me. I tried to make the best of it, but I just wanted to go home. Later, I got a text from her telling me how mad she was and how I shouldn't blame alcohol for making me sick when I clearly have not been taking care of myself. She also said that I was deliberately ruining the night and was not appreciative of all the work, money and time she put into this. She ended by saying that she was telling me this because she would not have another day like this. Since then, anything that is brought up she responds negatively and just says she's not appreciated. She had set up a tailgate party for the bridal party and family, and then said she was not planning anything for this. Luckily my FH took care of it, but during the tailgate she yelled at me for not having paid for transportation for her for the rehearsal dinner. I am not sure what to do at this point. Even when I attempt to say thank you or be responsive to her, she continues to make negative comments and anything she helps with his thrown in my face.