My bridal shower is just over a week away, and I have been struggling with whether I should get the hostesses gifts. There are 19 of them, and most of them are ladies from our church, not family or close friends. Is it proper etiquette to get hostesses a gift? I can't really afford to buy that many hostess gifts, so I was thinking about baking cookies and packaging them in clear bags with a thank you tag if I do gifts. Am I breaking etiquette rules?