Jewelry Gift for husband-to-be

[Deleted User] · November 2016

My sister's getting married March next year. She's now working in Singapore, but will be back for good this December!

Her fiance is based here in SoCal. Mom and I are helping her in her wedding preps. Now she's planning to give her fiance a gift. He's an artist - a photographer/musician. Really getting confused on which one is nicer between a necklace and a bracelet. These are Deific jewelry BTW. Getting overwhelmed with their nice collection really! Not sure if silver is ok but the gold one looks a bit special. Jamie Foxx got a silver ring from the said collection though and looks like it goes well with any kind of wardrobe. Will really appreciate your input ladies.

Image: https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0945/1742/products/Bracelet_Deific_NA1_1024x1024.jpg?v=1479294232

Image: https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0945/1742/products/Deific_Starry_Night_Pendant_A1_1024x1024.jpg?v=1478761888

Thanks in advance!

missfrodo · November 2016

I think the owl necklace looks feminine, whereas the bracelet looks masculine--not sure how big of a concern that is to your FBIL, but the necklace reminds me of something I could find in Hot Topic or even Claire's, while the bracelet looks more unique and not like something you could pick up for ten bucks in a mall. It looks very heavy and bulky, though--I'm guessing he wouldn't be able to wear it if he's playing an instrument at the same time.

SP29 · November 2016

I also prefer the bracelet. I agree, it looks more unique, something you can't find somewhere else.

LondonLisa · November 2016

Does he normally wear very large pieces of jewellery? These are very, very bold statement pieces.

ETA: I just looked it up because I don't know the brand and saw that the pendant is $230 and the bracelet is $800! For that price, neither of these pieces look that high of quality. If you are looking to spend in that much on a gift, really make sure this is something he wants. Honestly, it isn't my taste and it seems like a ridiculous amount for what looks like shopping mall jewellery. If this is his favourite brand and he talks about it all the time, go ahead. But otherwise, I would reevaluate.

STARMOON44 · November 2016

I think they are both really terrible and your sister should buy her future husband a gift herself, without your help. They have stores in Singapore.

LondonLisa · November 2016

STARMOON44 said:

I think they are both really terrible and your sister should buy her future husband a gift herself, without your help. They have stores in Singapore.

I have to agree- these look like accessories teenage Criss Angel wannabes wear with their Ed Hardy shirts.

For $800 she could really buy something much, much nicer and longer-lasting.

climbingsingle · November 2016

STARMOON44 said:

I think they are both really terrible and your sister should buy her future husband a gift herself, without your help. They have stores in Singapore.

I'm sorry, but I have to completely agree.

OliveOilsMom · November 2016

This post seems way vendor-y to me! You even mentioned a celebrity who has worn their pieces. Who cares about that?

OliveOilsMom · November 2016

And how did that fake ultrasound picture for your H work out? Did he cry tears of joy only to have the baby rug pulled out from under him? Because that is exactly how I felt when I had my miscarriage earlier this year.

You are a troll, go back under your bridge.

climbingsingle · November 2016

OliveOilsMom said:

And how did that fake ultrasound picture for your H work out? Did he cry tears of joy only to have the baby rug pulled out from under him? Because that is exactly how I felt when I had my miscarriage earlier this year.
You are a troll, go back under your bridge.

Holy shitballs. I remember that. Can we just ban this person already??

Heffalump · November 2016

climbingwife said:

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OliveOilsMom said:

And how did that fake ultrasound picture for your H work out? Did he cry tears of joy only to have the baby rug pulled out from under him? Because that is exactly how I felt when I had my miscarriage earlier this year.
You are a troll, go back under your bridge.

Holy shitballs. I remember that. Can we just ban this person already??

Somewhere, a bridge is left unguarded.

glasgowtolondon · November 2016

I say get him both. A giant owl with purple eyes on a necklace would just look tacky without a bicycle chain bracelet.

banana468 · November 2016

Has your mythical sister said that her made up FI would really like some overpriced jewelry as a wedding gift?

Heffalump · November 2016

ttcstacey said:

Jamie Foxx got a silver ring from the said collection though and looks like it goes well with any kind of wardrobe. Will really appreciate your input ladies.

I'm assuming he made his choice before he saw that purple-eyed owl.

banana468 · November 2016

Heffalump said:

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ttcstacey said:

Jamie Foxx got a silver ring from the said collection though and looks like it goes well with any kind of wardrobe. Will really appreciate your input ladies.

I'm assuming he made his choice before he saw that purple-eyed owl.

It's a shame. That owl's a hoot!!

MissKittyDanger · November 2016

OliveOilsMom said:

And how did that fake ultrasound picture for your H work out? Did he cry tears of joy only to have the baby rug pulled out from under him? Because that is exactly how I felt when I had my miscarriage earlier this year.
You are a troll, go back under your bridge.

I was curious and just looked up the form about that. I completely forgot about that one!

jacques27 · November 2016

Let's pretend this post is real.

1. That website offers free global shipping so no reason why your sister can't do this herself.

2. It's a gift that's supposed to be FROM her to HER FUTURE HUSBAND on the DAY THEY UNITE AS HUSBAND AND WIFE. Just how does that conversation go? "My dearest, as an expression of my love and just how happy I am be marrying you, I had my sister poll a bunch of internet strangers to pick out and buy this intimate gift on this, our wedding day." Seriously, she can't even be arsed to pick out her own gift to the guy who is supposed to become her husband?

3. That crap is ugly. It looks like cheap ren faire pewter knock-offs.

Just cut the pretense and have your sister buy him a card that says "I don't give a crap" and call it a day.

firestar-2 · November 2016

Well there's a whole lotta nope in one thread...

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