I wasn't sure where to put this, but you all in etiquette are pretty reasonable.
FBIL is getting married some time in the spring, out of the country. No one is invited to their wedding (not even parents). They are planning an AHR and have sent out STDs for this (which has begun to confuse family apparently). I was talking to his fiance about how awkward I felt creating our registry and she said something like "oh I can't wait to create our registry and see what we'll get!" She has also taken FMIL up on her offer of a shower.
Am I wrong to be feeling a little....icky or snarky about this situation? I will fully admit I am a little extra judgy about her which is a thing I need to get over since we are going to be family. Something just seems off about not wanting anyone present at the wedding but then wanting all the "trappings" of a "typical" wedding.