It seems like no one in my wedding party cares about my wedding! I am wondering if I am expecting too much from them? What exactly should I expect them to do? Maybe I need to lower my expectations so that I am not disappointed.
For example, one of my bridesmaids asked me if I am having a shower. Wouldn't that be something that they are supposed to plan? Another asked me what we are doing at the bachelorette party and then was said "I guess it will be whatever the MOH plans." But, my MOH did not plan anything. She won't participate in the group chats we have going on facebook because she said there is "too much to follow."
I am not asking them for any help planning the wedding or anything like that, but for the other events I was under the impression that is what the wedding party usually does. I am just starting to feel like no one in my wedding party really cares!