My MOH wants me to give her the names of all my female friends so that she can invite them to my bachelorette party. The problem is:
A. I don't have many female friends. Like, I have 3 locally (MOH included) and one will definitely not come to a b-party because she is the type to prefer one-on-one social interaction.
B. The female friends I DO have live 3 hours away.
Should I have her invite those far away ladies anyway? I understand and agree that only women invited to the wedding can be invited to the b-party. I just feel weird being like "please travel all the way down here for a party". I know it's my MOH hosting and inviting, I just feel awkward about it. But I DO want a b-party because I do like going out and doing fun things with my friends. Is 3 hours too far to travel? Should I at least give them the option to participate? I've been excluded from pre-wedding parties (for weddings I was invited to) because I live far away, and that made me sad and a bit insulted actually. Even if I couldn't attend being invited is nice. Maybe that's my answer right there but I am interested in your opinions
P.S. I am declining a shower because we aren't registering and don't need "stuff" since we are mid-30's and have been living together for 7 years. So this will be the only party any of these ladies will be invited to attend.