So we just received a quote from our possible florist. Great - I'm looking over it and my FI ask me what Buttonholes are. So I pull up photos of what I was thinking on Pinterest (like you do) and he freaked out. Apparently; he hates them, or at least thinks that it's too much if you also intend to have a pocket square (he had a plan apparently!)
We're having two big events one Paris Wedding where we live and another event in Australia where I'm from so he suggested to wear a buttonhole in Australia and a pocket square in Aus but I think that the buttonhole is more formal and ties in the bridal party and possible the dads.
What do I do?
I want our wedding to not be just the bride's show and have him represented but I like them.
Should I choose a different battle?
Will it look not formal without them?
...It would save money to not have them.
Help I really want to know if we don't have them will people look for them?