FW and I have decided we want to get married with just immediate family, Housemate, and FW's two BFFs. FW is an only child and her father passed away two months after we met, so FMIL is her only family apart from FSD. Having her BFFs there wasn't going to be my hill to die on. (Plus she already told one of her BFFs that she was invited.) Counting us, the officiant, and the photographer, there would be15 people (unless we also invite FW's xW, her H, and FSD).
FW feels very strongly about not having the big wedding we had originally planned (I wish I'd paid more attention to what she wanted before, but that's a whole other matter). I explained to her that I was going to run our plans past you all, and that if you nixed it, it would be just us, our officiant, and our photographer.