So I've been on these boards reading a few things, and it has come to my attention that apparently the MOH and BM don't have any actual responsibilities when planning a wedding. I thought the whole point of having a Maid of Honor and Best man was to help with the wedding? Go to dress fittings, tastings, help plan bachelor/ette parties, general moral support when stuff gets stressful, hold the bouquet/rings at the ceremony etc. etc. So, what, their whole job (bridesmaids and groomsmen included) is to just show up and look pretty? Not to mention these people expect gifts for being in the wedding party. Why bother having them at that point?
We've been going by these: https://www.theknot.com/content/maid-of-honor-duties-in-detailhttps://www.theknot.com/content/best-man-duties-in-detailhttps://www.theknot.com/content/groomsmen-duties-in-detailhttps://www.theknot.com/content/bridesmaids-duties-in-detail
Where did I miss something that these people have no responsibilities? If they're just suppose to be accessories then It'll save me a lot of time and heartache by not having to decide if I like people enough to have them stand up in my wedding.