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Wedding Party Pair-Up

Hey guys - I have a question: Is it OK to pair up a bridesmaid and groosman who are brother and sister? I say no, but others say it's OK. What do you think? Is there a code of conduct that says either way?
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Re: Wedding Party Pair-Up

  • Geez-it's a 20 second walk up the aisle.  It doesn't mean they're sleeping together.  You are seriously overthinking this.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Wedding Party Pair-Up : WP dances are awkward no matter who you get stuck with. 
    Posted by MyNameIsNot[/QUOTE]

    I agree completely which is why I didn't have one.  I was just giving a reason why the people the OP referred to might think that a sibling pair up would be awkward.
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  • I was paired with my brother for my sister's wedding.  I actually prefered it to being stuck with one of the other groomsmen, none of whom I'd ever met.  True, it's a short walk, but even so I was more comfortable that way.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Wedding Party Pair-Up : WP dances are awkward no matter who you get stuck with. 
    Posted by MyNameIsNot[/QUOTE]

    Agreed!  I've had to dance twice with married men - very awkward!!!
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    [QUOTE]Geez-it's a 20 second walk up the aisle.  It doesn't mean they're sleeping together.  You are seriously overthinking this.
    Posted by trix1223[/QUOTE]

    <div>This. </div><div>
    </div><div>On the other hand, if they're touching, it might suggest that they're inbreeding....<img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-innocent.gif" border="0" alt="Innocent" title="Innocent" /></div>
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  • Walking is fine. 

    But please don't even think of a WP dance.
  • Agreed. Don't overthink the situation. I'd rather walk with my brother than a stranger.  It's 20 seconds that no one will really think about (because all eyes will be watching you!)
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