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Re: Wednesday: halfway there!

  • Happy Birthday GBCK!
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  • Short version of what we discussed:
    - if M does poker, it won't be during the week {currently it varies between weekdays and weekend}

    - our friends are cool with kids coming to things so M would ensure that is still okay and we could look at both of us going with kid.

    - if M does poker at night, he'll ensure that I get time to myself during that day or next.

    - M wants to make sure we get at least once a month of the two of us, this might be having grandparents babysit

    - agreed that we both have habits we'll have to break {lifestyle change mixed with spending}


  • Short version of what we discussed:
    - if M does poker, it won't be during the week {currently it varies between weekdays and weekend}

    - our friends are cool with kids coming to things so M would ensure that is still okay and we could look at both of us going with kid.

    - if M does poker at night, he'll ensure that I get time to myself during that day or next.

    - M wants to make sure we get at least once a month of the two of us, this might be having grandparents babysit

    - agreed that we both have habits we'll have to break {lifestyle change mixed with spending}


    It's definitely doable. 






  • Short version of what we discussed:
    - if M does poker, it won't be during the week {currently it varies between weekdays and weekend}

    - our friends are cool with kids coming to things so M would ensure that is still okay and we could look at both of us going with kid.

    - if M does poker at night, he'll ensure that I get time to myself during that day or next.

    - M wants to make sure we get at least once a month of the two of us, this might be having grandparents babysit

    - agreed that we both have habits we'll have to break {lifestyle change mixed with spending}




    It's definitely doable. 


    I know it's a huge lifestyle change in general and people say you're "never fully ready" but I just wanna feel prepared.

    Tbh we both know most of this won't be able to really 'do' until we're in the situation.












  • Short version of what we discussed:
    - if M does poker, it won't be during the week {currently it varies between weekdays and weekend}

    - our friends are cool with kids coming to things so M would ensure that is still okay and we could look at both of us going with kid.

    - if M does poker at night, he'll ensure that I get time to myself during that day or next.

    - M wants to make sure we get at least once a month of the two of us, this might be having grandparents babysit

    - agreed that we both have habits we'll have to break {lifestyle change mixed with spending}






    It's definitely doable. 




    I know it's a huge lifestyle change in general and people say you're "never fully ready" but I just wanna feel prepared.

    Tbh we both know most of this won't be able to really 'do' until we're in the situation.


    Control is an illusion. 




















  • Short version of what we discussed:
    - if M does poker, it won't be during the week {currently it varies between weekdays and weekend}

    - our friends are cool with kids coming to things so M would ensure that is still okay and we could look at both of us going with kid.

    - if M does poker at night, he'll ensure that I get time to myself during that day or next.

    - M wants to make sure we get at least once a month of the two of us, this might be having grandparents babysit

    - agreed that we both have habits we'll have to break {lifestyle change mixed with spending}








    It's definitely doable. 






    I know it's a huge lifestyle change in general and people say you're "never fully ready" but I just wanna feel prepared.

    Tbh we both know most of this won't be able to really 'do' until we're in the situation.




    Control is an illusion. 


    which is probably why I'm crazy :')
  • GBCKGBCK member
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    thanks!
    I did the 'work a half day, then hang out w/ family' birthday fun.
    The Mr. got Canolli from my fave. bakery and we went out to a japaneese steakhouse which was OK.
    The new job is not internet friendly, and I apparently walked more than 10 miles (again) today--as well as having to find the powder you dump on kid vomit and having to deal w/ a bus full of kindergartners that broke down.  But...the good is still outweighing the bad :)
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