A little background information: our wedding is destination for my side. My BMs and MOH are all single; I offered them all +1 and only my MOH took me up on it. She's bringing a friend who is insistent on coming (I haven't met her, but I do know that she's nice).
My BMs and I, for years, have been fawning over afternoon tea. We started talking about how we should plan to go to this restaurant that offers afternoon tea the day before the wedding.
I then told my MOH about how we might have afternoon tea: just all us girls. She loved the idea and wants to bring her +1. This is gonna make me sound like a jackknob, but I don't want that. I kind of changed the subject and said that everything is still up in the air :T
I started to not want to have afternoon tea to avoid hurt feelings. My FI was not happy about that and made the reservations and told me not to invite her, you've been talking about tea with the girls for years, etc etc.
I sound so petty, but I really don't want her there, but I also don't want my MOH to miss it. I mean, I'd totally understand if she did want to miss it to be with her friend, but I don't know... MOH did mention she'd feel bad making her stay in the hotel room while we had tea :T and I'd feel bad, too, but I don't know! Please help! Should I suck it up and invite her or should I just cancel the tea?