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Health Tips For Young Women?
Hello 
So a bit of context: I am 20 years old and my fiance is 21. We both are living at home with our parents until we get married, and I am only working a part-time job for the time being. I don't make too much and need money for my pets and train/bus commutes, so what is left over needs to be saved for honeymoon and wedding funds--which isn't until Autumn of 2018!
When my parents got married (just a couple years younger than myself), they were slim and fit and in great shape! But then my mom started cooking a lot and the weight quickly crept onto them. Nowadays, they gave up on physical fitness, and try to eat healthy sometimes, but there is always a stock of ice cream and other junk food in the house, and a very limited selection of fruits and veggies. So that plays into some of my worries for now and when my fiance and I get married...
Currently, I am 5' 6.5" and 145lbs. By appearance, people say I am very thin and think I am a fit person. But truthfully, I do have quite a bit of excess fat, especially in my thighs and stomach, and I have never felt so far from being healthy and fit. I've seen myself gain weight and fat in just the past 6 months since I quit my last job for a new one. I was working full-time, walked to and from work (about a 25min walk each way), and stood the entire 8hrs with lots of walking around and some light physical labor, aside form my breaks, of course. My new job is very restricting in terms of physical activity. I am only part-time and sit for the few hours I work, and I mostly get rides to and from work, due to early morning or late night shifts.
So with all that context... I have a few concerns on getting--and staying--fit before the big day!
With a limited budget, I am trying to find foods and recipes that are not only healthy, but easy on the wallet. Not only for now, working part-time and living at a mostly unhealthy home, but advice how to keep being healthy on a low budget when married. Also, I found some great fitness bloggers/vloggers and cardio dance workouts on Youtube that I absolutely LOVE! But I have an issue with motivation and finding time in my super busy schedule! I am usually gone first thing in the morning, and not back until late in the evening, with some exceptions on certain days. I'll have a day or two where I finally have this revelation and believe that I will start my fitness journey from that day forward, but the next day something comes up and it throws me off so I go back into my old routines. Also, there's the fact that I procrastinate and prefer to be lazy and relax with my free-time rather than doing more work...
I would love to hear what you guys did at my age (and any age), or are doing now to fight laziness and busy schedules and low budgets, and chose to be healthy and fit!
So a bit of context: I am 20 years old and my fiance is 21. We both are living at home with our parents until we get married, and I am only working a part-time job for the time being. I don't make too much and need money for my pets and train/bus commutes, so what is left over needs to be saved for honeymoon and wedding funds--which isn't until Autumn of 2018!
When my parents got married (just a couple years younger than myself), they were slim and fit and in great shape! But then my mom started cooking a lot and the weight quickly crept onto them. Nowadays, they gave up on physical fitness, and try to eat healthy sometimes, but there is always a stock of ice cream and other junk food in the house, and a very limited selection of fruits and veggies. So that plays into some of my worries for now and when my fiance and I get married...
Currently, I am 5' 6.5" and 145lbs. By appearance, people say I am very thin and think I am a fit person. But truthfully, I do have quite a bit of excess fat, especially in my thighs and stomach, and I have never felt so far from being healthy and fit. I've seen myself gain weight and fat in just the past 6 months since I quit my last job for a new one. I was working full-time, walked to and from work (about a 25min walk each way), and stood the entire 8hrs with lots of walking around and some light physical labor, aside form my breaks, of course. My new job is very restricting in terms of physical activity. I am only part-time and sit for the few hours I work, and I mostly get rides to and from work, due to early morning or late night shifts.
So with all that context... I have a few concerns on getting--and staying--fit before the big day!
With a limited budget, I am trying to find foods and recipes that are not only healthy, but easy on the wallet. Not only for now, working part-time and living at a mostly unhealthy home, but advice how to keep being healthy on a low budget when married. Also, I found some great fitness bloggers/vloggers and cardio dance workouts on Youtube that I absolutely LOVE! But I have an issue with motivation and finding time in my super busy schedule! I am usually gone first thing in the morning, and not back until late in the evening, with some exceptions on certain days. I'll have a day or two where I finally have this revelation and believe that I will start my fitness journey from that day forward, but the next day something comes up and it throws me off so I go back into my old routines. Also, there's the fact that I procrastinate and prefer to be lazy and relax with my free-time rather than doing more work...
I would love to hear what you guys did at my age (and any age), or are doing now to fight laziness and busy schedules and low budgets, and chose to be healthy and fit!
Re: Health Tips For Young Women?
I did just recently lose 10 pounds on something called Dr. Goglia's diet. They do charge you each month for a personalized meal plan, but I can give you a recap. Avoid dairy and added sugars. Try to avoid things like bread. If you are going to eat carbs, eat them at the beginning of the day, and not at night. Also, this sucks, but avoid alcohol. If I drink, I let myself have just a glass of wine on the weekend.
I eat 5-6 small meals per day. Breakfast will be something easy like bran flakes, with almond milk and blueberries. 1st snack is a banana or apple. Lunch is grilled chicken with veggies. 2nd snack is celery with peanut butter. Dinner is a healthy protein (stick to chicken, fish, lean cuts of beef) and veggies. If I want dessert, I have an Outshine fruit bar. They're usually only 60-70 calories.
I found myself putting a lot of milk and sugar in my coffee, so I stopped drinking it. Now I have just tea with honey. Also, I make sure to drink a minimum of 70 ounces of water per day.
I know you said that your funds are limited. Do you have a gym near you like Planet Fitness? I know they are usually pretty cheap ($10 per month). I would look into that. Working out at home has never worked for me. I finally just realized this, after buying so many things to work out at home with. If I'm home, I just don't have the motivation. I find that going to the gym is the only way I can do it. I force myself to go at least 4 times per week, and once I'm there working out, I feel great. I work a full time job where I'm required to sit at a desk all day, with not much movement. So I feel that doing cardio each day is important for me. But also, I try to get in a lot of weight lifting too. I feel that's that has also helped in losing weight.
Honestly, the majority of is diet. You have to make healthy choices, and avoid foods that are bad for you. Eat the correct portions, and don't eat huge meals. For me, at least, the trick is to keep my metabolism going by eating small, healthy meals throughout the day.
Our current diets are very simple-carb based. Nothing wrong with carbs- particularly if you are active and exercising, but there is a different between eating vegetables and eating cookies, chips and prepared foods.
Try to remove sugar and extra salt. Prepared foods (i.e. frozen foods that come in boxes) tend to be high in sugar, fat and salt. Personally, I don't think "diet" foods are good to eat at all. Usually when something has been removed (i.e. sugar) it is replaced with something else to make it taste good (salt or fat). Eat foods that are naturally healthy- use simple whole ingredients, and everything in moderation. For example, go ahead and put some avocado (which is high in fat) on your sandwich or wrap, but of course you aren't eating the entire avocado in one meal.
Pinterest can be a good source of information for recipes (and free as long as you have the internet). You can find all kinds of "topics" such as budget friendly, 30 mins or less meals, or variations on healthy meals.
Try to fit in exercise where you can. The key is to find something active that you enjoy doing- if you enjoy it, you'll stick with it long term, instead of thinking you HAVE to go to the gym/run/cross-fit, whatever.
If you like working out, check out Blogilates on youtube. The trainer, Cassie, posts various short work out videos that you can pair together to make a longer workout (good if you are short on time), and I think if you join her mailing list she'll send you a monthly calendar that gives you a daily list of videos to do together.
Walking and running are great exercise- all you need is the right shoes. Can you do a 20-30min walk on your lunch/dinner break at work? Take the stairs whenever you can.
Bike riding is also great- you can do that anywhere as along as you have a bike. Could you bike to work? Even one way.
If you can afford a pass to a community center, swimming is also great exercise.
The smaller portions idea is great advice, thank you! It is something I have been trying to exercise recently. As I stated, my house isn't filled with the best choices for health food, so I am trying to ease myself into a routine: Right now, I am working on smaller portions without changing much of the food I am eating at home (since, as I said, there are limited options). After getting into that routine, hopefully my new job will allow me to have a slightly larger budget that I can use a bit to do some light grocery shopping, so that with my new habit of eating smaller portions, I will also be able to slowly replace the junk food with healthy options without the stress of trying to force so many new things on myself at once.
On a downside for me, I was not blessed with the great genetics of a quick metabolism. Women in my family gain a lot of weight in our thighs especially. And for some reason, it is not easy for me to lose weight quickly, or even at all. My fiance and I went to the gym for about 3 months at the beginning of 2017 when we could afford the monthly charges. I wasn't eating too healthy, so I was seeing very slow results. Now, we don't have extra money to use for gym memberships or diet plans or anything of the sorts, as we have to save for our wedding and honeymoon and moving out together (we live in Bay Area where cost of living is EXTREMELY and ridiculously high!).
Thank you for the tips! I will definitely keep in mind!
I LOVE blogilates! I used to do 2-3 of her videos a day at least 5 times a week! But that was back when I had more time to myself. Now I have a job and fiance, and I used public transportation which takes up a LOT of time!
Right now, I am close to the end of my job and will be starting another in a few weeks. The job I have now, and have had for the past 6 months, like I said, is very restricting and small shifts. I didn't have a lunch or a break long enough to go on a walk. I absolutely love riding bikes as well, but I have no access to one right now, and can't afford it in my limited budget to purchase one, either, otherwise I would ride it everyday!
I do use Pinterest when my fiance and I have a few extra bucks to spend and we want a cheap recipe to go to the grocery store and try out! I already do plan on using it when we live together, as it has saved us a lot of money and trouble before!
And thank you for the information on the diet foods! I learned in high school that they aren't always what they say they are, and there are even healthier alternatives. But your information helped explain it in an easier to understand way (and easier to explain to my fiance!).
One of my favorite quick easy meals is lemon chicken with veggies. If I make a little extra it is usually my lunch the next day too.
Minced garlic
Preheat oven to 425. Cut up celery into smaller pieces. Peel shallots. Throw veggies, minced garlic and chicken onto baking tray. Drizzle olive oil over veggies and chicken. Add salt/pepper to taste. Squeeze one lemon over the veggies and chicken, then toss together. Slice the last lemon and place on the chicken. Cook for about 25 minutes.
I think focusing on small changes and looking at what goals are reasonable is best. Keep in mind that avoiding of x, y, or z will be hard to follow and may lead to craving the foods that you are avoiding.
I like to focus on goals that have nothing to do with weight loss or food intake. Things like being able to walk up all my apartment building stairs without stopping or walking for 1 hour at x pace. The goals are easily measurable and take the focus off body image and self control and put the focus on feeling and achieving.
You may also want to research a good food box or garden share. I used to get a box of vegetables for $10 a month and it really helped me broaden my horizons.
It worked so well for me and kept me super active - completed my first half marathon 2 weeks ago!
Since you do not work full time, you should have time to get out and move. I started walking a little bit. Just around the rugby field. Then added more distance. Then via my Samsung Health app I started tracking time. Months later I was trying to beat my time and distance. I currently do a minimum of a 4 mile walk a day (takes less than an hour) or 3-4 mile hike (those take me about 1.25 hours). 3 days a week I go big. I either hike 10+ miles or do some hikes with large elevation gains (some 1500-3000 ft). Friday I'm hiking a 14K ft mountain
There are a ton of exercises you can do without money. Squats for an example. Sit ups. Leg lifts, calm shells. Look up yoga poses.
Getting outside walking/hiking made me start eating better. I am NOT one to stick to a special diet. Nope, I'm not a cold turkey person. That would set me up to fail. I did small changes over time. So I started off making myself eat a pile of veggies or a salad at least once a day. I make myself eat the veggies first, then the "good stuff".
After a while I made other small changes. More trail mix and less ice cream, for example. Less junk food. Little to no processed foods at all. Now this varies by location, but I do not find fruits and veggies to be expensive. Sure there are some items like berries that might be, but bananas always seem to be cheap. Just look for things that are in season.
18 months later I'm down 30 lbs. I was never overweight, but pretty damn close. Doing things slowly made all the difference for me. Not too slow, I set mini-goals weekly and went from there. My husband keeps ice cream in the fridge. I eat it sometimes, but 16 months ago it would be gone in one night. Now it takes a week. Walking/hiking is now a habit. Even in the winter.
First bolded: A wedding and honeymoon that cost a lot of money are luxuries. If that is where you choose to spend your money that's fine, but you can't use that as an excuse to not be able to eat healthier and work out. I'm certainly not judging you if that's where you want to spend your money but I believe in another post you were mentioning budgeting $3k-4k per person for a honeymoon. That's a lot of healthy food!!!
Healthy food doesn't have to be pricey. Chicken breasts and beans are good economical proteins. learn what veggies and fruits are in season where you live, they'll often be cheaper. Here, I can get 2-3 zucchinis for about 2 bucks and make a ton of zoodles to feed a family of three for dinner.
Second bolded: You have to change this if you want results. It's easy to be lazy. A walk can be relaxing. Other physical activity can be fun and free. You could take a long walk with your fiancé, do you have friends who like to be active? Meet up to play Frisbee, play tennis or basketball. You have to make an effort to change your lifestyle if you want to see results.
Good luck!!!
When I was younger I did Daily Burn and really liked it, it was inexpensive and at that time came with a diet plan (last I checked they either got rid of it or it was extra).
I have to say, that for both my husband and I maintaining our health in terms of nutrition means that we (mostly I) have to plan ahead and meal prep. Our grocery budget is nearly 1/2 during the months that I plan and prep than it is when I don't. We also eat much healthier when I make healthy snacks (protein balls, and homemade peanut butter cups are some of my favourite delicious inexpensive treats).
In terms of working out, you just need to do the work. There's no quick fix. You said you're working part time, so that should leave enough time to get sweaty for 30-60 minutes per day. Lift some weights, do some interval cardio. You'll probably find that if you maintain healthy activity daily you'll start to crave it rather than the other way around, but it definitely takes time and effort.