Hey, so we got engaged middle of May this year. The wedding is October 20, 2018. I am now trying to plan the engagement party. I found a place I really really want to have it. It is a rooftop bar. The original dates I was looking at was August or September, but the more I thought about it it will be soooo hot at that time especially since we have no cover or shade. The next date available is October 21st. It will be cooler then, but I'm worried that it is too far from the engagement. I know I could just change venues, but I would hate to have to do that. So, is October 21st too long after the engagement to have an engagement party???