It all started about 8 or 9 months ago. She told me I could save money on something by showing a copy of my tax return since I have low income, and I froze. I really didn't know how to react.
For the record, I have a good job that pays decent. We own a house (bigger than hers)My fiance works as well and we don't have any kids so I have no clue where she got that from, or why she would think that. Even if I did have low income, who says that to someone?! It was condescending, rude, and really none of her business! Anyway, since then I really don't like being around her. She says things here and there that are either rude or not necessary. I think before we started wedding planning, I just ignored it. I knew some things were odd, but I never dwelled on it. Now, I'm just on edge
She said another doozy recently that got me upset again and that's what prompted this post. Her friend is an officiant for weddings. Apparently the 2 of them discussed her (the friend)possibly officiating our wedding (before consulting my fiance and i first) My fmil then told us neither of them would be upset if we don't end up having her officiate, but she might just come to the wedding anyway! Wait, what?! I was flabbergasted, this is a destination wedding by the way.... Do people do that?! She's just going to invite people to the wedding without asking us first? It's not like she's footing the bill. It's my mom, my fiance, and I that are paying for the wedding. I could see her stance if she was helping. But, even then, it's our wedding, just have the manners to ask first! End rant.. stay tuned I feel I might have more lol....