My fiance's family are bazillionaires. Old money. Super wealthy. Old south type. Got it? Yeah.
They insist on stepping on my family's toes and bring up paying for the wedding every time they bump into each other! My mom and stepdad (more like dad dad) are playing for my wedding - their gift. But fiance's family demand to pay. My poor family (no pun intended, but a little) are so offended and hurt that fiance's family treats them like dirt! Fiance's mom even told my mom that they'd be happy to pay so we can "get what we actually want."
Besides that, fiance has an awful relationship with his parents. They're rude to him and not at all supportive. They talk smack about him to anyone who will listen (his cousins have called me asking if I knew what she was saying!) and it's really disheartening.
How do you deal with rich fiance's family who are just trying to make a show of their money and literally don't even care about us at all?