So my original plan was to have my cousins who are 3 and 5 be the flower girl and ring bearer (they're brother and sister so it would be super cute!)
However...we're not super close (only see them on major holidays) and their parents might be getting divorced and their mom isn't a blood relative so she might not want to come...etc. Basically my mom and grandma keep telling me to have a back up...
So my best friend/MOH's daughter has been to every wedding planning meeting discussion, etc. Basically her mom has brought her to everything she's been too. In my mind/heart she's my niece especially since I don't have any siblings.
One...should I ask her/her Mom to be my flower girl if my cousins say no.
Two...should her mom/MOH carry her down the aisle. Should her Dad carry her (he's not in the wedding party) or should we make a wagon and have someone pull her down the aisle?