I am attending a friend's shower who is coming in from out of state to attend her shower. The couple have made a small registry but have made it clear on their website they would prefer people contribute to their honeyfund. I don't want to get her a gift off her registry for her shower that she will have to find a way to get it to her home. Would it be appropriate to get her a gift card for her shower then give the couple cash as a wedding gift?