I am currently the maid of honor for my cousin's upcoming wedding. She also has two matrons of honor, as well as 3 bridesmaids. Being the closest MOH to her, as her two other MOHs included her FSIL and her best friend from college, I was taking it upon myself to gather some ideas for her bachelorette party, and then present them to the other bridesmaids for their thoughts, as it still is a few months out. However, I found out today that the two other MOHs, as well as one of the other bridesmaids, will be going to Las Vegas during President's Day Weekend. I was not asked to take part in this, and neither were two other bridesmaids (who happen to be my two sisters who are underage, but I am not). My first question would be, should I be insulted?? Is it possible that they did not ask me because my sisters couldn't attend, or should I be making a big deal out of this? ( Which would be totally out of character for me, as I am a notorious doormat.)
My next dilemma would be planning what the bride told me she would like her bachelorette party to be. I had asked her a few months ago and she said a trip to a vineyard, then spend a night or two in Atlantic City. She asked that not only the bridal party be included, but her mother, aunts, etc. Should I continue planning this bachelorette party? I don't feel particularly inclined to, but I would like an unbiased opinion on what I should do about this situation. Thank you!!