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Sorry Guys

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edited February 2018 in Wedding Party
Didn't know this was that public. Sorry friends.
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    ILoveBeachMusicILoveBeachMusic member
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    No I don't think that is an overreaction at all. I would feel the same way.
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    Jen4948Jen4948 member
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    Not at all. She treated you like shit. I'd be livid and would not consider her a friend anymore.
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    downtondivadowntondiva member
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    She's a terrible person and you are not overreacting. 
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    climbingsingleclimbingsingle member
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    No, you’re not overeacting. She’s an awful person. 
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    MobKazMobKaz member
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     I would be sending her a bill for services rendered regarding her bachelorette party.  
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    flantasticflantastic member
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    You're entirely justified.
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    levioosalevioosa member
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    Wow. What a fucking peach. Sorry, OP. 


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    LondonLisaLondonLisa member
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    Tell her you expect to be reimbursed for the bachelorette party and the dress. 

    This friendship is over. She is genuinely awful. I am so sorry. 
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    banana468banana468 member
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    Ditto @LondonLisa.   She used you.  I'd tell her you expect a check.
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    STARMOON44STARMOON44 member
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    banana468 said:
    Ditto @LondonLisa.   She used you.  I'd tell her you expect a check.
    I wouldn’t expect to get one, but I’d be asking just the same. 
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    charlotte989875charlotte989875 member
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    That would be my reaction. 

    I'd definitely ask her to reimburse you for the dress. 
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    banana468banana468 member
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    STARMOON44 said:
    banana468 said:
    Ditto @LondonLisa.   She used you.  I'd tell her you expect a check.
    I wouldn’t expect to get one, but I’d be asking just the same. 
    Yeah.   I wouldn't hold my breath on any reimbursement but I'd call bullshit on the crocodile tears after I spent well over $1000 of my hard-earned money on a supposed dear friend only to find that she felt like I was replaceable.   


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    NowIAmSypNowIAmSyp member
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    Holy crap, OP.  I'm sorry...

    Did she say WHY she wanted the switch?  Not that it matters, but I'm just honestly curious as to what ridiculous thing she may have said....

    Consider this a bullet dodged- life is too short to waste it on bad people.
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    MairePoppyMairePoppy mod
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    Your ex-friend is a terrible person. Be glad she's out of your life.

    Send her an itemized list of your expenses. Don't expect a response. At minimum, she should reimburse you for your dress, airfare and any non-refundable expenses for the wedding.

    Not that it matters now, but the bride could have added her other friend without kicking anyone out.
                       
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    Ro041Ro041 member
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    I would give her a bill.  I might even copy the other BMs and ask for reimbursement for your expenses now that you have been kicked out in favor of another friend.  At a minimum, I would feel better knowing that her friends know how shitty she is.  I wouldn't expect reimbursement and I would wash my hands clean of the event and the friendship.

    I am so sorry this happened to you.

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