I am stuck, I am from Chicago but my fiancée is from Indianapolis . My family is throwing me a shower in Chicago but in Indy no one wants to be a part of throwing one for the family that lives in Indianapolis. His aunt offered but would not accommodate the amount of people that would be invited. My bridesmaids that live here do not seem interested in throwing me one either. Would it be strange for myself, as the bride to host one due to the distance being so far from one another? Please help!