Hi everyone, I’m a little disappointed in the way my two bridesmaids dropped out on me. My MOH is currently in the process of planning my bachelorette weekend at this nice Villa in Doral. Long story short back in April my MOH told me that she need all the bridesmaids number so she can start putting plans in motion for my bachelorette, I was excited that she randomly wanted to do that. I gave her all their numbers and she went on to text them about her plans (till this day I know nothing about them). She later wrote me and said they all agreed that they would stay at the villa, go half, and help plan. I was excited!!
Fast forward to Two days ago my MOH texted me in a rant saying no one ever responds to her messages only two of them constantly respond. So I took it in my hands to text the other 4 who never respond to her messages basically letting them know that my MOH (I say her name) is trying to get in contact with them are they receiving the messages? Two of them respond asking me questions that should be asked to my MOH because like I stated earlier, I really don’t know anything about the plans. I said that to them and they basically said “well yeah okay I am down, and will be staying at the villa” (which left me confused because they obviously are not texting her back letting her know.) so I basically said to them (perfect, you can let (my moh name) know.
At this point I was still waiting on the other two to respond which are my OOT cousins. I waited two for them to respond before texting again.. FINALLY one of my cousins responded saying “no we’re not staying at the villa”. So I responded by saying “okay well now I have an idea on how I should go about doing the day of timeline, I need to plan a extra hour for you two to make it to the villa so we can get dressed, and get our hair and make up done”.
(We’re staying at the villa until the wedding day and are getting dressed and etc there)
About 1 hour passed and they haven’t responded AGAIN, so I wrote again saying “are you guys still interested in being bridesmaids”? The same cousin who had responded earlier wrote again saying “I’m at work, but you can just take me off for being a bridesmaid, I’ll just attend the wedding”. At this point my mouth was to the floor. She was so mad that I never told her anything about the wedding plans but as soon as I start doing so she gave me the cold shoulder as though she didn’t want to hear it. I texted her back and said “okay thanks” and haven’t heard from her since. My other OOT cousin haven’t responded AT ALL so I’m guessing she’s agreeing with the other OOT cousin and don’t want to be a bridesmaid anymore either.
I really didn’t want to get involved in the bachelorette planning because the bride shouldn’t have too. I can honestly say we were being IGNORED to the TEA. They both have social media and were very active during the hours of me texting them, they chose to take forever to respond. I really wanted them up there next to me. I can careless about the bachelorette party.
Sorry for the long paragraphs I just needed to vent. Thanks for reading.