I've gotten a lot of advice over the years to the tune of "Do what you want, nothing else matters" but I find that this is simply not true. If your values matter, if the input from your family and friends matters, then those things simply have weight that cannot be ignored. I come from a background where family and religion are both extremely important, and I remember friends asking "Why don't you just do whatever you want?"
There is no such thing as ignoring everyone else or my values to do only what is best for me. I am doing what I want, and what I want to do is respect my family/my beliefs. Sure, it's often a tougher road with more obstacles and formalities, but it's worth it.
What do you guys think?