I'm in the process of creating a wellness plan for myself! Let me know what your wellness plan is and if you have any health tips!
I'll be updating this thread with my progress.

Starting Weight: 180 lb
Current Weight: 155.5 lb
Goal Weight: 120 lb
Health:
- Get a nutritionist
- Create a sustainable diet plan with the nutritionist
- Drink 72 fl oz of water every day
- Weight lift 3 times a week (using StrongLifts 5x5 app)
- Do cardio 5 times a week (Blogilates, running, and hiking)
- Walk 1 mile after each meal
Beauty:
- Set up an appointment with a dermatologist
- Get professional facials monthly
- Do Biore pore strips twice a week
- Do at home face mask once a week
- Do sheet mask for face twice a week
- Do sheet mask for neck once a week
- Do hair mask once a week
- Get a manicure every two weeks
Mental Well-Being:
- Meditate 3 times a day
- Practice mindful eating
Re: Wellness Plan: September 2019 Wedding
I'd start small. Start eating mindfully and working out 2-4 times a week, for example. Build on from there.
I just wanted to share my wellness plan and see what others are doing too, so we can all encourage each other to meet our goals!
I know you’ll be seeing a dermatologist and an esthetician, so they could weigh in better than me, but your beauty plan reads as a lot going on, maybe too much? I don’t know your skin type or needs to please ignore me if I’m wrong. Like the Biore strips I think you’d be good 1-2 times a month. Again I’d ask one of the professionals they’d know better than me.
I find that with my skin, the beauty plan I've laid out keeps my skin clean and fresh. What kind of skin care routine do you do?
I lifted yesterday! With the 5x5 StrongLifts app, I managed to do:
- Squats: 5x5 45lb
- Bench: 5x5 45lb
- Row: 5x5 65lb
FH ran on the treadmill while I lifted. I love it when we get to work out together!I managed to walk a mile after lunch and dinner. Breakfast is probably only going to happen on weekends due to work in the morning, but never say never!
I drank 58 fl oz of water, and I did a sheet mask for my face before I went to bed.
I didn't meditate yesterday, so that's a priority for me today.
If you're doing a wellness plan, feel free to update your progress in here! I'm hoping to build a positive community where we can all encourage each other to meet our wellness goals.
I know sometimes we can set unrealistic goals for ourselves and get disappointed if we don't see the results we want. Which is why I'm not so much focused on the number (although it would be great to be back at that weight again), but rather on the healthy lifestyle.
But damn, this all sounds exhausting! And I get up to run at 5:30 in the morning.
I already do cardio about 5 times a week with running and hiking (I do pilates when it rains), but I know I need get some strength training in there.
What are your running goals?
Not that I've tried it (though I should!), but I've heard and have had a few friends find some weight loss success by dividing their food up into 6 smaller meals a day. I've read that helps keep the metabolism more active all day.
Edited to add: You're probably already doing this, but cut empty calorie, sugary drinks. Even juice and smoothies! No more than 6-8 oz./day and it's fine to have none. Despite the advertising "hype", your body doesn't care if it is 1g of natural sugar, 1g of cane sugar, or 1g of corn syrup sugar. It is all sugar and the body treats it all the same way.
I had a former coworker who started her weight loss journey, just cutting Coke out of her diet. She took the longer term approach by making changes one step at a time. She dropped 20 lbs. in a few weeks, just cutting out her Coke habit. To be fair, she was well over 200 lbs. to begin with, so I wouldn't expect that kind of drop so fast in someone who starts at a lower weight.
I don't drink soda (that was a new year's resolution years ago), and the only smoothies I drink are the ones I make at home with a cup of berries, almond milk, and a bit of almond yogurt in them.
That SO cool for your former coworker who cut her Coke habit! What a difference it makes!
I wash my face with warm water and Dove soap in my morning shower, and my daily moisturizer is spf 35. In addition I do use stronger face sunblock on sunny summer days bc I have fair skin, but most of the year the moisturizer is sufficient. Every night I cleanse and tone, and use a moisturizer at night in the winter months (my skin is seasonal- oilier in the summer and drier in the winter lol).
I use a foaming face mask twice a week, I exfoliate twice a month, and use a Biore blackhead strip once a month or so. I get facials once every 4 or so months. This is what works for me although again, everyone has different needs.
As far as diet, all the water as I’d mentioned. I try to make vegetables at least half of lunch and dinner, and any snack. Carbs (empty carbs) used to be a downfall of mine but since I’ve been careful about making my carbs fiber-filled (fruit, squash and sweet potato, quinoa, oatmeal) I’ve seen a difference. My favorite foods are pasta and pizza and two helpful substitutes have been cauliflower rice with marinara or whatever sauce, and cauliflower pizza crust.
Ooh, Dove soap feels so luxurious on the skin! And YES sunblock! So many people don't apply it, but it's super important to include in your beauty routine. I have SPF 15 in my toner and moisturizer, and I never go for my lunch walk without an umbrella to keep the sun away from my skin.
Okay, as for cauliflower rice and crust: my FI HATES cauliflower, which is devastating for me because I absolutely love it. Whenever we go out for pizza, I always get cauliflower pizza crust. It's delicious.
I also found that eating out a lot can have major repercussions for my health and well-being (hello skin breakouts and goodbye waistline). So FI and I choose to eat out once a week for a "date night." I feel like it makes picking the restaurant even more special because we get to be extra selective with our date night restaurant choice every week.
I'm so glad you've found a wellness routine that works for you! Gosh, that is simply brilliant to identify a weakness for carbs and use that knowledge to your benefit.
I have a weakness for sweets, so I find that adding a bit of fruit here and there between meals helps fight that sweet tooth.
Right now all my health and wellness is shook up from first trimester exhaustion and sickness, but I'm hoping to get back to daily 30 minute walks and gym 3x a week in the next few weeks.
I need to overhaul my normal skin care routine because I'm having a heck of a time with my skin right now. Now it's shower at night, toner, moisturize, and in the AM just a quick rinse and my SPF moisturizer. Maybe I should add back in a morning actual washing? Who knows. Washing twice a day was really irritating previously but I gotta do something.
I used to go to McDonald's and eat like 20 Chicken McNuggets in one sitting. I also used to go to Dunkin' Donuts and get a dozen donuts to eat by myself. I was totally out of control.
After I took a long look at myself in the mirror, I decided that I didn't like who I was and made a change. That's when I got into running and also chose to eliminate fast food out of my diet as much as possible.
I can't remember the last time I had McDonald's, and the last time I had a donut was about 8 months ago.
I walked a lot yesterday! I walked to the bank and then to the nail salon to get a manicure.
I've started meditating 3 times a day.
Today my family and friends are going to Top Golf. I'm terrible at golf, but it will be a lot of fun with everyone there!
I will also lift tonight after dinner.
If you're doing a wellness plan, feel free to update your progress in here! I'm hoping to build a positive community where we can all encourage each other to meet our wellness goals.
Keep focusing on your mental and emotional well being. Everything else in life will fall into place.
My small improvement over the last couple weeks is I have cut way down on potato chips. I LOVE potato chips. I would have one of those small bags as a snack at work most days. But haven't done that once either this week or last week. Though I did have some chips at home, over the weekend.
I'm not making chips a "forbidden food". Because that would be crazy for me, lol. But I am trying to only eat them when I am especially in the mood. Instead of just because they are a habit and a snack I like.
Keep up the good work!
I've scheduled a mini facial for myself on September 22nd. I'm also looking into lash and brow tinting as well since my hair is so fair. Has anyone done this before? What are your thoughts on it?
I'm drinking a TON of water every day. I try to drink 24 oz in the morning, 24 oz in the afternoon and then 24 oz at night. I find that at night, I don't like to drink cold water, so I've been making myself hot, decaffeinated tea instead. I like ginger, chamomile, and green teas.
I'm also walking after lunch and dinner. During my lunch break, I usually walk about 1.5-2 miles after a bite to eat. After dinner, FI and I go for a mile walk where we hold hands and chat about our day.
It's raining today, so instead of running, I'll be lifting tonight and then hopping on the elliptical or bike for a little cardio.
I usually like to watch some TV when I'm on the cardio machines. I'm super into "Kakuriyo no Yadomeshi," "The Eternal Love," and "Justified" right now. What shows do you guys like to watch when you're breaking a sweat?
Also, I'm super happy to say that I've lost a pound this past week! I'm now at 154.5 lbs.
There is one area that you may want to adjust sooner than later. Focus on one part of the body, do not do squats on the same day you bench and get a deadlift day worked in there because deadlifts literally can solve all of the world's problems! (and it's just fun picking heavy stuff up and setting it down because it's about mechanics more than the pounds - but most of all, deadlifts help strengthen key areas and balance the body that you'd otherwise miss just doing benches, rows, squats and accessory work) Even if it means a guest pass to train for a couple hours at a power gym near you, work with someone who knows competitive lifting for strictly the learning form issues because bad form equals injuries (not all fitness trainers are good at judging form - some will land you in PT sooner than you can say it), you want to be lifting with good form for YOUR body not some textbook for a lifetime, not just through the wedding. Also, do not look at the weight, lift based on resistance, 45 (the bar) is a good learn form weight, but there needs to be a lot more volume if you're working 5x5's, lift until the lifting is done for the day, not until you've got a number of sets, some days you'll do 12 sets of 5 working up, others, 15, some days 10, your body will be your guide not a sheet of paper. It goes without saying, no smith machine, use the real deal or dumbbells (it is better for your body to work its own mechanics and working your stabilizers)..
Also recognize with adding lifting in that the scale will be a bit wonky because muscle takes up less surface mass than fat in your body, so gaining weight may be gaining muscle while dropping fat so your tight yoga pants will look fab on your kiester with those squats, but that amazing look may not reflect on the scale, go off of looking great in the mirror as the guide. You will not bulk, women do not have enough testosterone in our systems, tone is muscle - keep reminding yourself of this!
I've started deadlifting, and you're totally right: it IS a lot of fun to pick up heavy stuff. Haha.
I have one of those scales that measures body fat percentage, bone density, weight, and BMI all at the same time.
I want to get my body fat down, so I'm more focused on that number rather than the weight I am. If I only get down to 140 lbs but have a body fat percentage of 21–24%, I'll still be extremely satisfied.
I'm not worried about bulking. I don't know why it's a concern for most women, because you're right: women do not bulk up easily.
Thanks for the encouragement and advice!
I lifted yesterday.
- Squats: 5x5 65lb
- OH Press: 5x5 50lb
- Deadlift:1x5 55lb
FH decided to do cardio while I pumped some iron. After lifting, I hopped on the bike for about 30 minutes and watched some TV.I'm going running after work today, so I'm chugging water to make sure I'm properly hydrated!
One thing I've noticed is that my sleep quality and length needs to improve. I really need to start unplugging from technology around 9:00 pm. Do you guys have any sleep tips?
I've noticed that since I've started listening to my body more, I'm way more productive overall. I feel more focused at work and I feel like I'm constantly improving.
If you're doing a wellness plan, feel free to update your progress in here! I'm hoping to build a positive community where we can all encourage each other to meet our wellness goals.
I lifted this morning!
After working out and getting ready, I headed over to a local beauty school where I got a mini-facial for $20.00. The lovely woman who did the facial complimented me on my skincare regimen and mentioned she could tell I drink a lot of water. It really makes a difference!
After my facial, I got a manicure and my eyebrows threaded.
If you're doing a wellness plan, feel free to update your progress in here! I'm hoping to build a positive community where we can all encourage each other to meet our wellness goals.