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Monday

CharmedPamCharmedPam member
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edited June 2019 in Wedding Woes
we can’t avoid it.

I had a horrible Friday! I stayed late on Friday and drive right to my friends house who had surgery that day. I parked my car around 6:30ish on her side street like I normally do, and went to walk up to her unit, which faces a semi busy road.  A car, going pretty fast, was passing and I heard a loud noise.  Apparently it bumped the curb and parts of the car had some pieces fly off.  I thought to myself, ‘man, that person is going to be upset’. It kept on going fast too. I watched it as it kept on going even after it brushed the curb.  It Drove right into a street sign and then slammed into a tree, not stopping.  Like, 45ish miles/hr.  It took me a good second to figure out what I was even seeing. I gasped as I was stopped and watched it all unfold.  Something told me to grab my phone and call 911 and I did.  People started to run to the car from the nearby park and out if their houses (the tree was on someone’s property). Cars driving by stopped to help. I was across the street from it all.

Thank goodness others knew what to do. I froze. I would have NO idea what to do.  I was able to be calm to the 911 operator as I told her where it was and what happened.  I’m sure I was one of the 20 people who did call.  It was AMAZING how many people were trying to help her (we found out later it was a woman).  She did not make it. There was a coroner/detective on site and they were there well over 3 hours.  It was so sad and really surreal to witness that.  I was probably one of the few who saw it happen from the start.  The car coming from the opposite end stopped and was talking to cops and I figured she saw what I saw so no need to ask if they needed another eye witness.  

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  • @CharmedPam omg .... that's just .... wow. Kudos to being able to call at least, not everyone has enough brain function to do that {myself included likely} Scary to see also. Hope you're ok after witnessing that.
    How is your friend post surgery?
  • Yikes, @CharmedPam! That's horrible! I'm so sorry you witnessed that accident! I feel bad for the deceased woman and her loved ones as well. I hope you are coping okay. Take time to take good care of yourself. After seeing something so upsetting, self care is super important right now. 
  • Thanks guys.  She’s doing REALLY good (my friend) when I first saw her but the numbness was wearing off towards the end and she looked to be in a. Lot of pain.  Hopefully the surgery stops the pain she has daily from it! 

  • kvrunskvruns member
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    Wow that is scary Pam. I'm sorry that the person didnt' make it but it is comforting to know how many people stepped in to try to help.  Hope your friend is doing OK too 
  • kvrunskvruns member
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    I'm back from being off most of last week. Trying to dig through the pile of stuff but I'm struggling. Unfortunately I'm underwater with projects to get done, let alone catching up from last week, so I'm in avoidance mode
  • @CharmedPam holy shit! That is crazy. 
  • Weekend was .... ok.

    TL;DR - M's grandma passed. What she had was called PML

    Saturday was crappy weather, but BabyKitten went to grandma's for a sleepover cuz we were invited to a comedy show for a surprise party. She slept ok, but she's not use to sleeping other places. I'm not excited for our trip away in July now, even though she's coming with us lol

    Sunday was beautiful weather. I vacuumed, cleaned my tub, threw in baby laundry and then headed to meet my mum for breakfast and hang outs. BabyKitten was up early, so she had a morning nap {which gave me the time to scrub my tub at least lmao}
    As I'm heading out, M - who went fishing in the morning - decided to go see his grandma in the hospital. Luckily BIL ended up going also.

    Meanwhile, my mum and I took BabyKitten to the park :) She played in sand for the first time, and did really great! Didn't eat it lmao
    We had her on the slide and she felt a bit, so I put more on the slide. She kept rubbing it on her fingers, so we put her down. She kept smushing her feet in it. Then started digging. We found a toy rake someone left and gave it to her. She didn't quite rake but did pretty damn good with it considering it was first time!


    Later that night, while we were just finishing up her bath, the phone call came.
    M's grandma passed away.
    As morbid as it sounds, it was a good thing. M said she didn't look like herself and she was basically a husk.
    Idk when the celebration of life is happening yet. I know plans weren't made much today since it's BIL's University grad.
  • That’s terrible @CharmedPam.

    I worked all weekend. Tonight we are going out to celebrate Father’s Day with my Dad and I’m running a bunch of errands. The rest of my week is studying and work, so SSDD I guess. I just want to relax today but there’s too much to do. 


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  • kvrunskvruns member
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    Sorry to hear about M's grandma :(
  • @MissKittyDanger I'm sorry about M's grandmother. 
  • So sorry to hear that @MissKittyDanger, hugs to you and Your H

  • Sorry for your loss @MissKittyDanger

    OMG @CharmedPam, that's intense.  

    Weekend was busy AF.  Friday we were up until 1am painting the bathroom.  We had to get up and at it on Saturday for DH to help FIL move and I went shopping.  I then came home and started busting ass around the house to clean it and also, get the bathroom back in shape after painting.  I ran to FIL's new house twice to help them unload.   Saturday, it rained all damn day.  And a lot of it was heavy rain with some flash-flooding. So the guys moving and me running around was miserable

    Yesterday, DH went to help FIL and I finished cleaning up the house to have my family and FIL over for Father's Day.  We had a good time.  The kids played on the trampoline with the sprinkler underneath.  The weather held out until everyone left to go home and then it rained again.  We're going to need a boat.  LOL

    DH is en-route to the east coast for work.  This week is going to be long with him gone and the amount of shit I have to tackle on my own.  I cannot wait to be off work next week and for SIL/BIL/nieces to be here Saturday and then BIL/SIL/nephews show up Wednesday.  And then a bunch of other friends and family will be here as well through the weekend.  It's going to fun.  Just have to slog through until then.  ;) 
  • I’m so sorry for your loss @MissKittyDanger


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  • MKD - Sorry for your loss.

    Charmed - That is crazy!  I'm sorry you had to witness that, but you did as much as you could calling 911.  I hope your friend can get some relief from her surgery soon.

    Friday was crazy busy at work.  Then I went to meet my friend's new baby.  I brought dinner and a dozen bagels, so new mom will be fed for a while!  She is having some complications, but is staying on top of them and advocating for herself.

    Saturday we were up early to go pick up our new dog!  Cassie is so sweet and gentle!  She has separation anxiety, so I'm hoping that we can keep working on it and the more she gets used to our routine, the better it goes.  We were gone for about 1 1/2 hours for church and I think she just ended up joining Olive on the couch till we returned.  I also baked Hs Father's Day cake.

    Sunday I got up with DD and made H breakfast.  I used up the chocolate cherry bread I bought from Wegmans and had stored in the freezer, by making French toast and bacon.  Drizzled the French toast with chocolate syrup and it was yum!  We then had family nap time, which Cassie settled right into and I got a lovely 2 hour nap!

    Dinner was bacon wrapped filet, which I cooked perfectly this time!  I also did garlic smashed baby potatoes.  After dinner, I finished up the cake by making the whipped cream and cutting up the strawberries.  I made H a chocolate strawberry shortcake with chocolate cake & chocolate whipped cream.  It was very delicious!  We gave H his gift and cards, which he loved.  He said it was a great day!

  • I tried posting a photo of Cassie from my work computer and phone and neither works.  I will try from home later, but given TK's suckiness, I'm sure it won't work there either.  But she is a beautiful yellow lab with brown eyes!
  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    I’m sorry for your loss @MissKittyDanger
    Dang @CharmedPam that’s crazy!!!
  • Wow @CharmedPam that’s scary. I’m so so sorry for yours and M’s loss @MissKittyDanger

    Weekend was good; went by too fast and I slept terribly last night so today is a particularly Monday, Monday. 

    Friday I had a work happy hour then we just cooked dinner and went to bed early. Saturday was a double header of football and H went out so I snuggled with the dog and watched Greys Anatomy. 

    Yesterday we hung out with family (mine and H’s). I have a lot of feelings about about Father’s Day. I don’t have a great relationship with my Dad but we’re also not estranged or warring so it’s a weird day. Anyone else feel like this? Like I don’t want to super celebrate but I also know ignoring it completely feels too harsh. 
  • Delta decimated DH's suitcase.  Thank god there's a Kohl's where he's going and I have Kohl's cash in my account. 
  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    mrsconn23 said:
    Delta decimated DH's suitcase.  Thank god there's a Kohl's where he's going and I have Kohl's cash in my account. 
    Will they pay for it? When American lost my bad on the way to NY once they told me to go shopping and submit receipts. They reimbursed me so fast. 
    He left the damn airport before he called me, so sadly...he can't claim anything now.  Plus, FIL just gave DH a BRAND NEW suitcase this past weekend that they found when clearing out his house and packing.  Ugh.  I found two options that are reasonable, will get his shit back, and I can do a pick up order for him.  I'm waiting for him to stop driving so he can tell me what to do. 
  • ei34ei34 member
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    That's so scary @CharmedPam and sorry to hear @MissKittyDanger

    The shower on Saturday was alright.  They (the hosts) went with a very trendy brunch menu (avocado toast, french toast sticks, chicken and waffles, etc) but the food itself wasn't great.  It was also outside and I'm really more of an AC indoors person when I'm eating and drinking and it's over 80 degrees.  And there wasn't quite enough seating.  There was probably exactly one seat for every butt, but no assigned seating, and 60ish guests.  They were going for a mingling vibe but it was more "if I go to the bathroom I'm going to lose my seat".  Nice to see some aunts and cousins that I haven't seen in awhile though. 
    My father and H's Father's Day celebrations were nice.  My twins graduated from preschool earlier- next stop PreK.  I know i said the other day that stepping up ceremonies for little kids aren't the biggest deal but I ended up crying lol...I was proud o:)
  • ei34ei34 member
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    All my condolences @banana468, I knew her due date was approaching but wasn't sure when.  My next candle at church is for your family
  • I am so very sorry @banana468.   Prayers for them and all of you in a very difficult time.  Peace and comfort be with you. 
  • @banana468 oh I'm sorry to hear <3 Thoughts for your family
  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    Oh @banana468 I’m so sorry for your loss prayers for your family. 
  • @banana468 I'm so very sorry. 
  • Oh, @banana468. I'm so so sorry. My heart goes out to you and your family. 
  • @banana468, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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