My MOH asked for a guest list for the bridal shower. If I include my immediate family (mother, sisters, nieces, aunts, cousins) and close friends plus my fiancé's immediate family (mother, sisters, aunts, grandmothers, cousins) we are at around 50 people. My grandmothers have both passed away which is why they aren't listed here.
I don't know really any of my fiancé's aunts or cousins - do I invite them as a chance to meet them or is the wedding where that should happen? Do I need to include cousins on my dad's side of the family that I'm not as close to if I include those on my mom's side which I know a bit better?
This number of people just seems a bit large to me, but I'm not sure. What are everyone's thoughts? I don't want this to be some expensive ordeal for my MOH so I don't know if I should take some people off of the list before giving it to her. Thanks!