90 Day fiance

short+sassy · November 2019

CharmedPam said:

Ok so the awkwardness between the bee keepers wasn’t just me? I kinda thought it may have been just because the cameras where on them? Takes some time getting used to?

yes to the uber driver sticking his kid on her right away. It’s almost like he’s looking for mom not a wife?

Back in my single, online dating days. One of the most "horrifying" profiles I ever read from a guy who messaged me, was that he was a widower with three boys all under the age of 5!

I even shoved my keyboard a little away from me I was so terrified at the thought, lmao.

Really, there was nothing wrong with his profile. He might have been very nice and I don't know what horrible and tragic set of circumstances left him such a young widower and those poor little boys without their mother. But, oh HELL NO, indeed! He was really barking up the wrong tree with me.

CharmedPam · November 2019

So last season they aired before the 90 days & the other way on Sunday/Monday. does this season just have “90DF” on Sunday’s?

climbingsingle · November 2019

Yup, I think now it's just 90 Day on Sundays, and that's it.

short+sassy · November 2019

climbingwife said:

Yup, I think now it's just 90 Day on Sundays, and that's it.

Yeah

. I'm already feeling deprived, lol.

At least they're continuing with Pillow Talk for it. I haven't watched the Pillow Talk for the first show yet, but saw that Molly is on it.

CharmedPam · November 2019

Haven’t seen pillow talk but last weeks:

i actually thought Tania and Syngyn airport greeting was pretty heartwarming. But why did she think throwing petals was OK?

I felt bad for Murcel when he went in for a hug and the oldest son was “that’s ok. That’s ok. That’s ok.” Dude - I’m not a hugger either but I also don’t decline it to Make people feel bad. While Murcel is awkward, I gotta say so is Anna....

Boy don’t I know the illinois drive is boring as fuck. And yeah don’t compare pizza hut to real pizza. Lol.

kvruns · November 2019

Uh yes the petals on the ground was just weird and I feel like bringing champagne would not be allowed! She was about to lose it when he walked up, she was hyperventilating.

Rich guy - I like how she’s is maxing out his credit cards and he assumes she will magically stop wanting to buy stuff when she gets to the US

CharmedPam · November 2019

Oh and if I moved half way across the country for someone with a kid - a conversation of “where does he/she sleep?” Would happen before I bought my ticket because I was on Anny’s side on THAT one!

and Juliana - she smiled waaaay to much for me to not think something’s up with her (also with the cc’s). ‘Cept when she cried at the end. You mean to tell me she’s standing there wiping her snotty ass nose all over her hands and you keep taping? No one could hand her a tissue?

kvruns · November 2019

CharmedPam · November 2019

That split doesn’t surprise me @kvruns. He had so many issues. The way he reacted to many things to name one!

and eta, pillow talk. I may have to fire up season 3 because I love some of the pillowtalkers from there. Loren, Alexei, Tarik and Dean Myers crack me up! What season is Annie and David from? The two sisters? Can’t even remember their names...Meh.....

short+sassy · November 2019

I was also side-eying an open container...and glass bottle no less...in the airport. Along with her littering the ground with the petals. Girl, here's a thought. I'm sure the janitor would have been happy to have waited a few minutes, if you'd thrown him a $5 tip. Especially since he is stuck cleaning up the mess you made!

I was also side-eying that Anna had Murcel fly into Chicago...a 7-hour car ride away from her. And then, on top of that, they stay at a "hotel near the airport" and leave the next morning. It didn't sound like they even left the hotel. Geez! Chicago is a major city! At least take him out on the town. Go explore the next day. Oh, he likes pizza? You mean, like one of the things Chicago is KNOWN for, lol. And you didn't take him to Malnati's or Giordano's or something?!?! You are wrong for that!

I'm also with Anny from the DR that it is completely nuts that little boy doesn't have his own bed. WTF is wrong with that guy! Get your son a bed, ffs. BEFORE you move your new woman into your house.

LMAO that Juliana bought a car, using his credit card. I suspect that was a "jic" things didn't go well at immigration and he broke up with her. Get it while the gettings good, girl! I don't really mean that, but couldn't resist all the "g" alliteration.

She also needs to calm TF down about the immigration sex worker question. Especially considering it was phrased as "in the last 10 years have you worked as a prostitute?" She was underage for most of that time. So it sounds like a boiler-plate question and absolutely nothing that was aimed at her personally. Now, one could argue that it shouldn't be a boiler-plate question for anyone. But she seemed to take it really personally and that they were trying to "imply" something. I highly doubt it.

CharmedPam · November 2019

short+sassy said:

I was also side-eying that Anna had Murcel fly into Chicago...a 7-hour car ride away from her. And then, on top of that, they stay at a "hotel near the airport" and leave the next morning. It didn't sound like they even left the hotel. Geez! Chicago is a major city! At least take him out on the town. Go explore the next day. Oh, he likes pizza? You mean, like one of the things Chicago is KNOWN for, lol. And you didn't take him to Malnati's or Giordano's or something?!?! You are wrong for that!

She also needs to calm TF down about the immigration sex worker question. Especially considering it was phrased as "in the last 10 years have you worked as a prostitute?" She was underage for most of that time. So it sounds like a boiler-plate question and absolutely nothing that was aimed at her personally. Now, one could argue that it shouldn't be a boiler-plate question for anyone. But she seemed to take it really personally and that they were trying to "imply" something. I highly doubt it.

Yup. I was thinking this too! Like what’s the rush? Going home to your 15 year old snotty son who won’t accept him anyway? Maybe the bees needed her....

and I also wondered if that question was asked to a lot of people! Not just her and them. But it’s a legit question.

kvruns · November 2019

I find it really odd the young girl couldn't even get a tourist visa to visit. I didn't realize it was difficult to visit from Brazil?

CharmedPam · November 2019

Thoughts on Sunday’s ep:

Uncle Beau. He’s the man. That guy’s great! I do like the Mike & Natalie’s storyline. It’s sweet to be godparents and then meet and fall in love like their bff’s.

Murcel. Tell Anna what you’d do if (and when hopefully) your parents find out. She has the right to know. And how do you think those boys feel that they have to be kept a secret?

Everything about Emily’s birth made me happy that I decided to not have children. But also, I hope my salon carries her nail color when I go next week.

The look on Michael’s face when Juliana said “shut up. I don’t do porn!” (or something like that - I don’t think she told him to shut up) after him joking around about limo porn. He was like “wait what? Why did I fly you out here?” Lol. Actually he has that “wait what?” Look A LOT in her interviews.

edit: saw pillow talk and she DID say shut up! Lol - also funny how the commentators were all like “what were YOU doing in ‘96?” Because I also backtracked too. I was like ‘96... let’s see I’m class of 97 so I was 17 and just moving to the states. Also livin’ the dream.

Hey, Robert - think your friend is right about a green card go-getter? I don’t like Anny, but I DO think Robert elaborated on what her life would be like to get her over here. (Which the pillowtalker’s also brought up)

Edit; I was kinda sad when they were making fun of Uncle Beau’s teeth/smile on pillow talk. I get it - but I hate when people are made fun of for things beyond their control

literal LMAO at pillow talk Annie’s “yeah because Florida is a bitch!”
David: “beach”.

Dear god I love those two. And that’s love from pillow talk only. I didn’t even see their season.

short+sassy · November 2019

Mike and Natalie seem like great people. I'm rooting for them. Not that it matters, but they're both really physically attractive also. Though he's normal good looking guy and she is a "wow" stunner. I'm not sure if I'm more jealous of her long legs or big, green eyes, lol. It does seem like karma they're respective BFFs are married to each other. I am normally right on with all the Pillow Talk people. But I was also side-eying that they were making fun of Uncle Beau. Uncle Beau seems to be really happy living a simpler life on a farm, in the great outdoors.

I hope it's just for the "show", but Murcel and Anna seem to have a major disconnect in what they want long-term. I'd hope they've already hashed out these major issues out BEFORE they started the K-1 process. Because he obviously did not want to leave Turkey and expects for them to move back there when her kids are older. As if once her kids are out of the house she'll be all "cool beans" about moving halfway around the world away from them. Not usually how that works. And he's acting like he'd leave her and go back to Turkey if his parents found out. WTF? He seems really immature and I don't think I like him.

I loved Michael's kids! What a couple of sweethearts! They were so sweet and so welcoming to Juliana. They made her breakfast, cooked her a welcome cake, and had even researched Brazil to be more aware of her culture. I'm sure dad had something to do with all of that, but they were happy and excited about it also. His daughter was especially adorable. She was so proud of her cooking! She should be! On a different note, Michael was incredibly creepy with his "limo porn" comment. At first I thought he was joking, but then he kept pushing it so now I'm not so sure. Really gross, dude.

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I don't like either Robert or Anny and have a lot to say about them, lol. I think they're both ridiculous for going through the K-1 process when they don't even know each other. And I think they're both immature hotheads, who act like "it's their way or the highway". They need to learn how to compromise or stay single, until they do. Though I'm also not buying that the total time they spent together before she moved was only 8 hours. Unless the K-1 process has changed since my friend went through it about 10 years ago, the couple has to spend at least a total of 3 weeks together, before they can apply.

The store they went to for her clothes was kind of odd. Everyone kept calling it a thrift store...and it looked like a thrift store...except it wasn't. It was a consignment store. I've spent many a happy hour in both types, lol. Usually consignment stores both look and have higher end/nicer clothing than a thrift store.

I think they were both wrong in that situation. Some people are "ick" about used clothing. He should have given her a heads up about that. Like, "So, we can get more bang for our buck...which equals more clothing for you...if we go to a consignment store. However, it will be mostly used clothing. Or, we could go to a mall. Where it is new clothing, but I can only afford a few things right now." She was also wrong for immediately getting PO'ed and pouty about it. She should have at least started with being calm and saying, "Used clothing isn't really done in my culture. I don't like it and I'm uncomfortable with the idea of wearing someone else's clothes. Can we go somewhere else that has new clothing?" As for her demands for Chanel and Versace. Girl, are you nuts!?! You knew this guy didn't have that kind of money. Wait 6ish months until you get your green card. And then you can go get a job to spend a month's paycheck on 1-2 outfits.

He was also a complete a** for totally disregarding her feelings on what she wanted for a wedding. Yes, he can put his foot down on serving guests caviar and crab legs. But he also doesn't get to say they're getting married at the courthouse and that's the only option.

CharmedPam · November 2019

He also doesn’t know what a ceremony is. He explained it as a small simple gathering. No, it’s not dude. A ceremony is anything you make it out to be. Both of those people irk me! And Is Bryson taking behavior lessons from Dracilla?

I really think the Marcul and Anna story is for the tv show. I was thinking that last night. They really have no drama or storyline. Being bee keepers can make 3 minutes for TV. So they needed something!

oh and when Syngyn called out Tania and said “so you wrote your story and I’m just a character in it?” i have a feeling after her laugh she wanted to say her sister said the same thing! But then caught herself because - then who’s right?

short+sassy · November 2019

CharmedPam said:

He also doesn’t know what a ceremony is. He explained it as a small simple gathering. No, it’s not dude. A ceremony is anything you make it out to be. Both of those people irk me! And Is Bryson taking behavior lessons from Dracilla?

I really think the Marcul and Anna story is for the tv show. I was thinking that last night. They really have no drama or storyline. Being bee keepers can make 3 minutes for TV. So they needed something!

oh and when Syngyn called out Tania and said “so you wrote your story and I’m just a character in it?” i have a feeling after her laugh she wanted to say her sister said the same thing! But then caught herself because - then who’s right?

Everyone on Pillow Talk last week was talking about how cute Bryson is. And, sure, he is a cute kid. But I did not find him charming at all and couldn't stand to be around him for more than a couple hours. He is too active and rambunctious. I don't mean that like he's a bad kid, he's not. And maybe it isn't unusual for 5-year-olds to be hell on wheels like that. But, for me personally, that child's personality would have been a dealbreaker.

I like Syngyn well enough as a person, but his going where the wind takes him attitude and lack of purpose is not my cup of tea. If he were my friend or my friend's SO, I'd have to take him in small doses, lol. However, I really felt for him when he said the bolded. And, OMG, Tania is way TOO attached to her friends! I mean, she took them to the airport with her to meet him. And then they spent his first few days in the US with them. WTF? She also blatantly said that her friends would always come before her H. WTF, again?

CharmedPam · November 2019

Right? I mean ho’s before bro’s, sure - but you don’t let the bro know that!! Lol

and next week’s episode - did I hear Robert say he had 5 kids with 4 different woman? Or was that taken out of context?

short+sassy · November 2019

CharmedPam said:

Right? I mean ho’s before bro’s, sure - but you don’t let the bro know that!! Lol

and next week’s episode - did I hear Robert say he had 5 kids with 4 different woman? Or was that taken out of context?

I didn't hear that. I hope not! But I think Anny meets Bryson's mother and she says she is a porn star. I'll be curious to see what that is all about. I thought Bryson's mom was out of the picture anyway, so there doesn't seem a point to Anny meeting her. Except for ratings...especially if she really is a porn star, lol.

short+sassy · November 2019

I was just checking out Soap Dirt to see if there was any good gossip before FINALLY going back to my real, day job, lol (so bored and unmotivated today).

I found paydirt. Apparently Jesse accomplished what Caesar could not. He MET Ukranian Maria! He met her in Barcelona. He was there doing a shoot. The article didn't have any details on why she was there. It gave the impression they both happened to be there at the same time, so they met up to hangout. But I suppose it's possible he paid her way to meet him there. He was also robbed at a Starbucks on his Barcelona trip. They stole his Luis Vuition bag with a $43K and $6K watch in it. Plus his passport.

kvruns · November 2019

Robert and Anny ugh - I hate them both

tall guy and Natalie - my only issue there is him having a bunch of debt and not telling her. I also wonder how she will feel about being in BFE

climbingsingle · November 2019

I'm only half way through Sunday's episode, so these thoughts are from previous episodes.

I hate that Tania brought her friends with her to the airport, and that they're still hanging around.

How did Robert not at least get his kid another bed before Anny arrived? Also, why not just take her to Target? Though they both acted like assholes in that situation. How are these people getting married in 90 days!??!

I do like Mike and Natalie. They seem very cute together.

I think the rich guy and his girlfriend totally overreacted about the questions she was asked. Even the immigration attorney said that question is to be expected.

I cannot stand Anna and Murcel.

CharmedPam · November 2019

Yea, he has to come clean with the debt. As far as waiting to clear it before having kids. One of my friends told me “if we waited for the perfect time, we’d never have kids. There is no perfect time”.

wait was that someone on here?!? LOL. If it is - that phrase stuck with me!

kvruns · November 2019

That's a pretty common phrase about kids as there is no perfect time. If he has crazy debt then I think it is good to try to get it down some before having a kid because kids are darn expensive. Plus that way she could then be working for a while and adding to their income.

short+sassy · November 2019

kvruns said:

Robert and Anny ugh - I hate them both

tall guy and Natalie - my only issue there is him having a bunch of debt and not telling her. I also wonder how she will feel about being in BFE

I assume both Tall Guy (lol) and her BFF have clued Natalie in, multiple times, about the rural vs. urban environments between Sequim, WA and Kyiv. At least I'd hope so, lol. Because that is a big cultural difference on top of the cultural differences between countries.

Because this would be me moving to Sequim, WA:

Me on a Sun. morning: "Hey Hon, I'm going to Starbucks to grab some coffee."

Tall Guy: "Ummm. Okay. You can take the 250 mile drive around the gorge to get to Seattle. Or take the 2-hour ferry ride to get to Victoria, Canada."

I was lmao at Pao's reaction that he needs to emphasize more how small Sequim is to Natalie, so she better knows what to expect. And then compared it to Russ not prepping her enough for how small OK was, lol.

Edited: fixed "preferring" (?) to prepping, which is what I meant, lol.

kvruns · November 2019

I wasn't sure if the friend/BFF also live in that same small town or not, but definitely would help if they live nearby.

And speaking of Kyiv, I was confused at first on if it was a different place than Kiev but looks like the spelling of it in English has been officially changed to Kyiv.

climbingsingle · November 2019

kvruns said:

I wasn't sure if the friend/BFF also live in that same small town or not, but definitely would help if they live nearby.

And speaking of Kyiv, I was confused at first on if it was a different place than Kiev but looks like the spelling of it in English has been officially changed to Kyiv.

Oh, interesting.

CharmedPam · November 2019

Diamond Foxxx

That’a the answer you guys were looking for.

kvruns · November 2019

Omg Brysons grand parents (his moms parents) look the same age as Robert practically! The grandma looks like she’s had some work but man they don’t look old enough to be grandparents

kvruns · November 2019

CharmedPam said:

Diamond Foxxx

That’a the answer you guys were looking for.

Ok I was just about to ask what you were talking about and I googled it and was like wtf. But now I just got to the part in the episode that she explained it. Is she trying to drum up business by mentioning it on the show 5 min into her segment?

CharmedPam · November 2019

kvruns said:

CharmedPam said:

Diamond Foxxx

That’a the answer you guys were looking for.

Ok I was just about to ask what you were talking about and I googled it and was like wtf. But now I just got to the part in the episode that she explained it. Is she trying to drum up business by mentioning it on the show 5 min into her segment?

Exactly what she was doing! I’m sure she’s gotten many more hits since having bringing up her career. And yeah she asked Anny some personal questions that shouldn’t have been asked but Anny was a B from the getgo! No reason for that either. I don’t think Anny & Robert will make it, unfortunately. Not only are they not on the same page - they’re on different chapters.

Another person I can’t stand, Tania. Run, Syngin, Run!

Watching 90DF gives me the travel bug even more if anything. Right now, really want to visit Ukraine.

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