We want a small, intimate wedding. My fiancé has a 24 year old daughter and 19 year old son. I have a 25 year old daughter. I would like my daughter to be my maid of honor and he would like to have his son as his best man. We would feel terrible leaving out his daughter and it’s just not an option. One idea is that we have his daughter officiate. She has a religion degree and getting ordained may be something she’d like. But, I also don’t necessarily think of her as a “public speaking” person so that may be out. Any other ideas would be much appreciated!