My fiance's mothers are gay and have been in a loving committed relationship for over 30 years (goals). He and I have been wondering about how he'll tackle the mother/son dance. Obviously one is not more of a mom than the other and there's no way he'd choose between them (nor would I ever ask him to). I know the father/daughter dance means a lot to my dad so I wouldn't want to cut the mother/son dance out just due to difficulty. That would be unfair for a billion reasons.
I can't imagine we're the first to have this question but I can't seem to find anything out there with any advice.