I’m the bride and I refuse to let my father attend the wedding. My father sexually abused me in high school, I haven’t spoke to him since. Most of my family doesn’t know what happened and I’m not ready to disclose that information yet. A lot of his cousins, aunts, and uncles will be there and I just know everyone is going to ask where he is and why he isn’t there. This is something I want to avoid because of how sensitive of a topic it is and it could very much ruin my special day. I have to communicate with my guests that I do not what them to ask me about my father but I don’t want to be rude. I have a private Facebook group for the wedding that has most of the guests on it but not all of them and this is something that should be communicated to them all. What can I do about this?