Hi everyone,
I've been engaged for just about 2 years, my wedding is this October. I've been telling everyone all along no children are allowed at the wedding. Its just not what me or my fiance want on our special day that we are paying for ourselves.
My sister just gave birth two months ago. I've been receiving nearly weekly guilt-trips over saying no to her bringing the newborn to my wedding. I've also started to hear "well if someone shows up with a kid what can you do, oh well" which leads me to believe they may just ignore me altogether.
Im very upset at the constant harassment over my request of no kids. Its not just the potential of crying during the ceremony, its that I know if my sister is there with her newborn the entire event will be about her and the newborn not me and my fiance. Everything has always been about my sister and for one single day I just want it to be about me.
Is it so wrong of me to not want her baby there? And should I just continue to take the weekly abuse and guilt trips by my family over this?