New Years is coming up, and it will be the first and only New Years my fiancé and I will spend together as....well you know....fiancés (we will be married by next New Years). I was supposed to go see my MOH and bridesmaid, who are my college friends, in their city. My fiancé planned to go see his friends in the same city so that we could each hang with our friends but also go to a bar together to spend New Years together. However, my fiancé's plans fell through, and so I asked my MOH and bm, if he could join us. They replied by saying they were hoping for a girls trip only. Meanwhile, my 2 bestfriends from high school (who I almost made my MOHs) later invited me to a get together at one of their houses for New Years and invited both me and fiancé to this gathering, where my fiancé would meet some of my best high school friends. I just feel like my college friends do not understand or consider that this is mine and my fiancé's first and only New Years as an engaged couple. Or am I being inconsiderate of my college friends' wishes? Part of me wants to tell my college friends that I am just going to go with my high school friends since they invited my fiancé, but I do not want to open a can of worms, especially because one of the college friends is my MOH. I do not know what to do, and I am in desperate need of help.