Hi all! *LGBTQ-friendly comments only please!* I just found out last night that my brother is trans and he would like to transition to being a female. For now he’s keeping his name and male pronouns. I had already asked him to be my “man of honor” because he’s the most important person in my life. However, after speaking with him it seems that he would be much happier as a maid of honor. He expressed his desire to wear a dress but he also hasn’t even begun his transition yet (no hormone replacement therapy or anything) and he hasn’t told anyone but myself. The wedding is in 4 months. He is fine with dressing in pants and a vest and doesn’t want to take the attention away from me. I want to be unconditionally supportive of him but I also really don’t want him to wear a dress because I feel like I would be arguing with our close-minded guests the entire evening. There won’t be time to have “have the talk” with everyone before the wedding. So, the question is: what can I do to show him that I support this and be as inclusive as I can at this point in his transition?