Hey everyone! I'll start off by saying I apologize if there's already a forum out there about this, but I couldn't find one that quite fits what I'm looking for.
The back story is that I was raised Catholic, and my future husband was raised Lutheran. My FH and I have decided to be married by a lutheran pastor that he's related to in a location outside of both churches.
My family has told me that our marriage will not be viewed in the eyes of the Catholic Church, and from there, our children will be seen as born out of wedlock, which is a sin in which you should not receive communion for. We also plan to raise our children in the Catholic Church. My family has also mentioned, as a solution, that we could have our marriage blessed by the Catholic Church afterwards. My FH and I have very similar beliefs and I think the catholic religion and the lutheran religion are very similar.
I do not want to make him convert to catholicism, as it's not what he wants. Based on what I've been reading he would have to convert to have our marriage blessed. Is this correct? I've also seen some articles online that state you can have a priest or deacon watch the ceremony and decide whether it is blessed already. I would love for this to be true, as it would save a lot of time and make me feel much better about not going against my faith in my wedding. I just don't believe everything I read online! Has anyone dealt with a situation like this?
I'm hesitant to reach out to priest or a deacon about it, because I know they will push for me to get married in the Catholic Church instead, but it's important to my FH that we are married by the pastor that he is related to. I feel STUCK! Thank you to anyone who just read my crazy rant and is willing to give some sort of guidance.