Im lost…. So i got married in 2015 and divorced in 2016… now engaged this July after 4 yrs happened last week told our parents. My mom and dad who put a ton out (money) in to my first. I my mom straight up is like you wanna get married it up to you to pay for it. I make like 35ish him about 40k ish just got the job about a month ago. We this week decided on a date of 9/23/23 and well im stressed it like we have to do everything he wants a small wedding i want a medium some what one. But what are the rules what now on my end he never been married. What can i do or not…. Been trying to sell my dress but my mom has said oh you have a dress he never seen do i wear that how do i afford thing it like every penny going to this…. I can diy stuff but it driving me crazy…. And it been a week and my parents have made me felt like all we well do is show up …. I want to have a good one and i know he is the one i want and my last. So some advice here please lost and confused