Dear Prudence
I am a 24-year-old guy whose sister is getting married next month. We get along well, and I’m good friends with my future brother-in-law. I have the honor of being the best man, and the wedding will be an extravagant affair. My sister has insisted that I shave my beard for the occasion, but I really don’t want to. I’ve had my beard for more than two years. It’s full and thick and extends a few inches below my chin, so it takes months to grow to the right length. I’ve offered to trim it down for a neater appearance, but my sister says she won’t accept anything but a clean-shaven face. Am I being unreasonable, or is she? Should I give in to my sister’s demands, or should I stand up for myself and risk the full wrath of this bridezilla (and possible expulsion from the wedding party)?
—Bearded Brother and Best Man