My fiance doesnt want to wear a boutonniere at the wedding he thinks they're..( for lack of a better word other than how he put it) "gay"
So, I dont want to convince him to wear one because its his own apparel and he doesnt want to wear one so he doesnt have to.
however, my florist has this cute idea for the groomsmens boutonnieres, and I would like for them to wear them,
-I asked him and he doesn't care either way if the groomsmen wear them-
Is this okay? can the groomsmen wear boutonnieres and not the groom? and then does that mean the ring bearer wont have a boutonniere? (as he is supposed to match the groom)
Will this look funny?
Any advice?