So I have a confusing situation I'd like some snarky input on.
I have posted a bit about my ex before but here's a quick refresher - I dated a douchebag I will call "Jim" for six years and at the end of the summer in 2008, I finally left him. Even though it looked really bad after ending a very long relationship, I immediately started dating again by getting back together with my high school boyfriend, whom Jim has never liked (and it never had anything to do with me - they just hated each other).
So long story short - it was messy for a while. But who cares, old-flame was better for me, and now we're getting married. Woot.
ANYWAY - I was really good friends with all Jim's friends, and since the breakup, when I see them around, we are friendly - but of course we never hang out anymore. One of his friends, I'll call him "Dan," is getting married at the end of next month and he sent me a facebook message a couple weeks ago asking for my address because his fiance "Jane" wanted to invite me (although I'm not sure why... since I've only ever met Jane a couple times, and it was when I was still dating Jim).
So as I waited for this invite, I couldn't help but wonder if it would be addressed to myself and my fiance, to myself and a guest, or just to me. I could understand why they would want me to come to the wedding - but was curious as to whether or not they'd want me to bring my fiance. Jim is a groomsman in the wedding.
Sure enough, when I got the invite - it was only addressed to me. I don't know how to feel about it. I can understand that they may feel it would be uncomfortable for Jim if I showed up to this wedding with my fiance, so that's why they left him off. But surely they can't expect that I'd go to a wedding with all these old friends, and Jim, and show up alone. I'm getting married, for sh!t's sake. It's not like I'm casually dating or whatever.
My mother thinks they invited only me because they think if I show up alone, it would give Jim an opportunity to talk to me and try and get me back. I don't really see it that way, but I'm not sure how to take it. At any rate - I'm not going to the wedding, since my fiance and I are flying out on a vacation that day.
If you were them - what do you think your reasoning would be?