HUGE dilemma - Need advice!!

Re: HUGE dilemma - Need advice!!

• aurianna member

  

  February 2013 edited February 2013

  Adding your aunts to the FB page and sending them a STD is telling them they are invited. STD = impending invitation. Your not sending the aunts an invitation was rude.
  They had every reason to assume they were still invited, since you verbally/digitally invited them. Plans change, so they had until the RSVP date to change their mind and say they could come (and since they didn't get an invite with the RSVP date, they had even more flexibility)
  
  Do NOT uninivte anyone, especially a co-worker. This person could be your husband's boss one day, or have influence with your husband's boss or other co-workers. You do not want the rumor floating around the place of your husband's liveliehood/industry that he was rude and uninvited someone to his wedding.
  
  If the cousins really didn't get added to the FB/STDs and if you did not give the aunt's +1s then you really could call and say they aren't invited... but the fact that they are most likely coming to take care of the aunts and have already purchased tickets... that would be a really hard call to make... and while totally in your right... might be a little cold.
  
  The other option is always find another venue... You'll be out the deposit and the cost of issuing new mailers... but you shouldn't have sent more STD/verbal invites/digital invites than you had capacity for.

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