My MOH dropped out with 3 months to go, saying she wasn't enjoying herself and was tired of the bossing around. My aunt (her mom) is also telling me I should listen to other people's ideas. I have, if fact I've changed or removed a lot of my original ideas because of my bridemaids imputs. My other two maids say I haven't bossed them once. I always thought since I'm the bride, I have final say on things like dress, shoes, hair, etc. Am I wrong?